Ya Reckon
 | Author:
Denise Thompson, MT43 News Correspondent
Denise Thompson |
Denise Thompson
MT43 News Correspondent
I venture to say you’ve heard the idiom, “You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink.” Likewise, “You can lead a human to knowledge, but you can’t make him think.”
Undoubtedly, we have all faced situations in our lives where we have tried desperately to help another, to perhaps, instill some wisdom or knowledge or insight regarding something of great importance. We have done everything in our power, but we can’t force another to accept our support, no matter how much we are convinced that “it” will be of benefit in some way.
One thing that sets the world of agriculture and those generational farms and ranches apart from other vocations is the tremendously deep family roots and invaluable connection with the land. To an outsider, the devotion of a farmer or rancher, although admirable, is perhaps on the spectrum of strange. It’s nearly impossible to explain that commitment. The land and the lifestyle; engrained in the taproot of tradition and family and longevity and this undeniable bond all become part of you…….part of your soul. Perhaps, the beauty and the curse of such a legacy.
I have spent the last couple of months attempting to thoughtfully convey the importance of transition planning within a multi-generation family business, its connection to a family’s legacy, and the tremendous blessings that arise from the tough conversations, transparency, honesty, respect and the overwhelming desire to see another shine oh so bright, in your honor. What a legacy, ya reckon? Most would agree!
“That’s how it should be, each generation shouldn’t start where the previous one died, it should get easier. Why would you borrow all that money and do all the work if you couldn’t pass this along?” Gene Taber, 3rd Generation Rancher, Shawmut, Montana.
It is said that “a good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children, but the sinner’s wealth is laid up for the righteous.” (Proverbs 13:22)
I hope what I have shared, if nothing else, has led you to ponder some things and take a proactive step toward preserving a legacy you can be proud of. Remember to check out Elaine Froese, the Farm Family Coach. I wish you well.
This Saturday, March 1st, from 9:30 to 3:30 at the 4-H Building, Elaine Froese will be leading a powerful and impactful workshop, called Finding Fairness in Farm Transition. Yes, it is focused on generational farms and ranches, but it will certainly be a help to anyone who needs assistance with their family business and ensuring it and your legacy continues. Register through Broadwater Conservation District (406-521-3014) (website: broadwatercd.org) or go to eventbrite.com and search the name of the workshop and reserve your spot. Also, don’t forget to purchase your tickets for the Annual Ag Appreciation Dinner at the Watson Event Center, also taking place March 1st at the Watson Event Center, with Social Hour starting at 5pm. See you there!
For the Love of Ag, From the Heart of a Western Woman.
Denise Thompson
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Image 1 Caption: "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink."
So too, "you can lead a human to knowledge, but you can't make him think."
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